Public and Private Kink

Mister Man and I have been kicking around the idea of playing at the next kink party. It got me thinking. What do I want to do? Likely percussion play. Maybe, eventually, suspension. Needle play even. I love the way needle corsets look.

Since practically my first play party, I've been intrigued by wearing a collar on the end of someone's leash. It intrigues me and makes me uncomfortable at the same time. I feel like I'm intruding on something private, whenever I see a couple in this arrangement.

I'm not objecting to those who attend a party on the end of a leash. If it works for you, good on ya! Rock out with your cock out, as Mister Man likes to say.

It just puzzles me that I do find it uncomfortable, when watching all sorts of other intimate acts does not. And it's not like I'm not an exhibitionist. There are things I enjoy doing in public. But apparently submission is not one of them. Who knew?